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Friday, August 01, 2008

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Alrite... Today I would like to talk about Family

hmm... What about family? Do u have one? What is there to talk abt it? Do u understand Whats the meaning of the word FAMILY??

F-Father
A-And
M-Mother
I-I
L-Love
Y-You

If u notice Family= Father and Mother I love You

SO yea, family is abt loving your parents and of cos every1 in yr family.
Have you ever asked yrself, do you reali love yr parents ?
or you just treat dem as a money tree?

Alot of teenage who is like me will always start a conversation with their parents by telling
them... 'I have no more money to use'

And after you got your money and there you goes again.. doin yr own stuff as if you are invinsible in the house...

I came across some family problems... those that my friends had shared with me... some are really bad, but some just don realli need to be a concern to.. Every family has thier own problem, cos thats what life is all about... you will always have problems. Its just the how the way you are going to react to your problems...

I am of cos not gonna share about my friend's family problems and of cos nt mine, cos I don't do such things.. Whatever the problem is or was, you just have to standby yr parents notice what I say... parentS, means yr dad n yr mom... in some family, there may be some feud between people in the family cos of some action done in the past and pple are not able to forgive. But no matter what, every bits n pieces of you is what yr parents gave you. The blood n fleshes represents the love from yr parents, so you cant be telling me that yr parents don't love you.

To start a family is damn easy, just like starting a relationship.. what i mean is get a lover and be together... but to maintain sometin is always difficult..
In a relationship, when things don't went well you can just break up and walk on separate ways.
But in a family, when things don't went well, do you think your parents can just walk on separate ways and neglect their own child? So whats the role of children in a family?

From my point of view, our role as children is not only to do what yr parents wants you to do, but also to support this family together with them. We are humans, we can communicate, thats is the only think only human can do. Communicate with each other in the family... don treat each other as stranger at home... I don see why you can be so communicative with some1 who you just know from friendster or facebook and you cant even talk to your parents for more than 5mins... So... get my point??

There is nothing in this world that cannot be solve.. There is always a way to every problems, its just how you gonna solve it. Even the strongest pple in this world are afriad of loneliness, and it happen to be, whenever you have problems coming in.. you will find yrself always alone... and this is when pple in the family come in.

I wana share a story told by a friend of mine... 'One day, a highly wanted man was being caught by the police, and the police interrogate this man asking,'Why did you do all this crimes?' and the man replied 'Cos my dad was like this also.' This wanted man had a twin brother. So after a few months had pass and this twin brother is listed one of the most successful person in his country and one of the reporter ask 'Why are you so successful, Whats your secrets?' and this man replied 'I had a good for nothing father and I don wish to be like him, so I work damn hard just to be a better person than my dad.'

I dono for you, but for me after I heard this story all I can say is... Woah... 'Tong ren, bu tong ming' = living the same kind of live but with differnt outcomes... why is it so? becos of how you react and solve the very own problems...

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Signing Off On|8/01/2008 04:27:00 AM|

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