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Wednesday, August 06, 2008

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Back to blog again...
Today gonna blog abt the goin into relationship...

Well, i might not know everythin abt relationship stuff.. but i went through quite alot..
and i am a failure in relationship...

Have u ever like some1 in yr life? have u ever missed some1 veri badly?
Have u ever try to date tat some1 that u missed veri badly?

What makes people do this? i mean, our main purpose at our age was to study and get good grades... but y are we thinkin abt gettin together wid the person tat we like?
Strange rite.. haha

Getting started is always easy... to maintain it? Hard to say... When money issue step in... den its a different story already... Being together wid some1 means you gotta spend your own money and not the money yr parents gave you... being in a relationship means you have to know how to take care of yourself 1st so that u can take care of yr partner..
All in all, it means to be dependant... in the thinkin and behavior...

How much can you provide for your partner? everythin in your life?? haha
How much do you have in your life if it is nt what your parents gave you?
Since they were from your parents, den choosing your partner also require parental acceptance rite? haha, tats logic

Are you able to standby your partner even when he or she is financially broke and emotionally unstable? you can say yes infront of your partner face.. but when things really happen.. things will be different...

When 1 day, you bf ask like $400 from you, cos he do sometin stupid like gambling and owe pple money... will you readily GIVE hi m this 400? notice i use GIVE and not LEND... SO as a gal, will you?? or will you be thinkin that your gal friend's bf oni giv dem money and not what is happenin to you... or will you be thinkin that wat you can buy wid this $400 for yrself...
This part of love I am tokin abt is self-less love... just like how yr parent's love for you.. they giv you everythin you need in your life and nv ask you back for sometin.. imagine your parents on have you, and they will be better off spending the money rather than spending on you.

Next...
imagine your partner physical appearance is damn handsome or pretty. And 1 day he or she met wid an accident... and it destroy his or her appearance... Will you still STANDBY your partner?
Whereby whenever you go out wid your partner, every1 in the public will be lookin at the both of you usin a strange manners?
This is the support that is require in a relationship..

Next...
imagine your partner is from a Rich family... and 1 day, he or she suddenly become poor... the poor i mean is really $0 in his or her pocket everyday... will you still be going out with he or she?

If you wana learn how to really love some1... just look at how yr parents love you... no matter what has become of you, they are always by yr side... mayb their love is nt tat outspoken.. but oni the love of parents is genuine...

Often pple will say, such things wont so suay happen to them... but wat if tat realli happen?
Den it will really prove how much you are ready to give in to your love 1...

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Signing Off On|8/06/2008 03:54:00 PM|

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